Hi Diana. Actually I have heard about your problems, but it was quite calmer and I didn't realize it quite well. Now I see how many times you've quarreled with your mum and that is my decision devoted to help.
1) Always listen to your parents, it worth it, they are older, and smarter, only because they have more experience in different aspects of life.
2) Make some small things yourself. It can be both presents and activities.
3)Don't forget to do some sports. It will help you to distract you from this
Hopefully these tips will be beneficial for your family and help you to feel better with your parents:)