I was still going out with James when I met my husband, Ben. We got to know each other because we went to the same gym twice a week. We went out with each other for about 18 months, and we got married three years ago, so now we've been a couple for almost five years. We've continued to go to the gym even after we got married and I still quite often see James when we are there. It's nice if you can still meet with an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend.