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See, most of the people in today’s world are confused about the relationship between parents and children. Should the child listen to their parents in everything or the parent should listen to the child in everything or is it a half half deal? Many number of people do not know how it should be.
Some says, it should be friendship and/or love between parents and children. But, these days, friendship, love and all such bla bla things are so much economical and fragile and get broken so easily any time when a parent/child do not get what he/she wants! So, such emotions seem nice at the moment but do not work longer.
Some says parents should raise their children within the limits and decide their career and marriage too. Some other says parents should give full freedom to children in everything. If the parents are limiting the child, then unknowingly, actually the parents are taking away the unlimited possibility and Life of the child. If the parents are giving all freedom to the child then the child will mess up with everything and his Life will be designed according to permutations of the surrounding people and situations which are out of control. Some says parents should teach their children everything about Life. Some other says parents should actually learn from the children and get updated. See, if the parents want to teach Life to the children, then first the parents must be knowing the Life in its entirety or if the children tell their parents about Life, then the children must be aware of the Life first. Today, many of the parents feel like they know everything about Life. So do the children. But, the reality is many of the parents/children today do not know the Life in its entirety or not even closer to that. So, where is the question of parents teaching to children or children telling to parents??
Some says parents are like god to children. Some other says children are god gift to the parents. See, with due respect, we may say parents are gods to children or children are god gift to the parents, but the reality is all of us are humans! This godlike attribution actually distorts the people from originality and takes us away from the reality. So, this godly nature to humans has nothing to do with the reality. We must understand this first. The people who talked too much about respect to parents are actually the people who will beat their parents and never care their parents.