The main problem encountered in adolescents - a problem of relationships with parents. In adolescence, the child gets rid of childhood dependence and goes to a relationship based on mutual trust, respect and a relative, but steadily growing equality. In most families, the process is painful and is perceived as challenging behavior.
Adolescence - the inspection of all members of the family to social, personal and family maturity. It proceeds with the crises and conflicts. During this period, all the hidden contradictions go outside.
So begins the separation of the teen parents, opposing them. Child can become rough, harsh, criticizing parents and other adults. Before close people do not notice the child, believed in the infallibility of his authority, and that would be held as the overthrow of the pedestal. This is because, in the eyes of the teenage mother and father remain a source of emotional warmth, without which he feels restless. They remain and the government, the controlling punishments and rewards, and role model, embodying the best of human qualities, and an older friend, who can be trusted with it. But over time, these functions are reversed.
Therefore, even in good families there is a certain difficulty of communicating with children school age. And the complexity increases also because parents often do not realize that communication with grown children should be built in a different way than with small ones. Parents do not always distinguish what to prohibit, and what should be allowed. All this can create a very difficult situation.