No, you're not the only one, there're a lot of families who has a problem like this one. It's very good that you realize it and want to solve this problem. I think, you all should spend more time going out, going somewhere together. I mean you could choose a day when each of your family is free and ask them to go somewhere (like the cinema, restaurant). You could shopping together! I believe it would be a great idea to spend the whole day with your family. It will help you to get closer. Besides, it's a Christmas time, so you can decorate your house and a crhistmas tree together.