Try to imagine a situation assessment which will be the opposite, when viewed from two different points of view. Of course, conflict. Conflict — the word is Latin and means a dispute, conflict, disagreement, which may cause further complication in the relations of people and groups and even entire States, then the conflict is international. But I'm talking now about the ordinary case of school life. Having met at recess or after school classmate, who is still angry from yesterday (don't gave to write the math problem), you take his leg, without hesitating for a second that this could lead to severe injury, even a fracture, concussion. It happens. But now he just stumbles and grasping the lapels of your jacket, shaking you. And it turns out that the advantage, alas, not yours, and on his side. The conflict ends with a bruise on one side and two scratches on the other. And all because you failed to extinguish a dislike, not critically evaluated their behavior, did not understand the true motives of a fellow student. Why should he give you his notebook? It is possible, even likely that he on that account their views, and he much rather would explain you the task, rightly believing that cheating is pointless, the real knowledge it will bring. Yourself you looked like a fighter for justice, like a bulwark of the principles of the partnership. And really? Actually showed himself to be lazy, quarrelsome, cocky, selfish, less caring about justice, comrades. And well, if in time you will be able to get rid of these shortcomings, will win themselves the harshness, intolerance, selfishness, which can serve you the best service in future life: in the army, the workplace. Not to mention the fact that the person with such character traits is hardly a place in the spacecraft.